As a single man in the north east, I cross paths with loads of attractive women. Women that I would like to talk to and possibly get to know and, as my girl Sigel says, buy a few meals for. However, since I am friends with lots of attractive women (as my first post covers), I always hear the horror stories of when gentleman try their hand and talking to them in a public setting. It never… never… NEVER ends in favor of the suitor.
The only time a guy even comes close to talking to these women is when they are at a bar and a guy buys them a drink or three.
What does it take for a guy to get the attention of a good woman these days?
It seems like it’s wrong to approach a women in a public space. But that can’t be the case. It has to be that all of these dudes are approaching them like every other guy in the world does.
Or perhaps, they are coming at a woman in an inappropriate and/or overbearing manner.
As the guy in the previous clip understands, the ultimate goal in the encounter is to get the phone number and continue this getting-to-know-you process at a later date. But, is there a way to approach a women that starts you off on the right foot?
Some ladies say “as long as he’s respectful, I will talk to him.” While others say, “if I’m out doing things, I don’t want to some man all in my face trying to talk to me.”
So, I put the ball in your court, ladies. What would you like to see men do when approaching you? Should they go the Luther Vandross route?
Perhaps the more confident Charlie Wilson approach would better suit you?
Maybe they are both too low key? Let me know how to pick up women how women like to be approached. Or, if you’re different from most, then let me know what you like, in particular.
Thanks in advance, and I’ll invite you to my wedding if your strategy works for me.
